DON'T FOLLOW TRADITION FOR TRADITION'S SAKE.

It's great to put together a day that everyone will enjoy, but remeber that they're attending to celebrate you and your relationship. As long as you keep guests fed and watered, they will be happy. With each part of the planning process, ask yourselves 'Is this something we really want? Will this element make our day better?'

There's nothing wrong with tradition, just figure out which ones make sense for you and those you can cast aside. Your wedding will be so much more rewarding for it.